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Want to reply? Just go with the flow. If you are really lost, then before you run up to a random girl, observe a little and see what kind of things she is into. Notice her habits, or try to talk about one of the things you are most interested about.
Confidence is the sexiest thing out there. Get some. That will get her talking. Just say whatever pops up in your mind. Nobody wants to talk about that. Just talk to lots of strangers and your shyness will go away.
Using pickup lines is just weird and fucked up, and pathetic. Just be fucking real.
And keep in mind, this is easy and the only thing standing in your way is yourself, and that you control this. You decided to be shy and stuff and it became deep set habit. Talk to everyone you encounter. Waiting in line, riding the bus, at a crosswalk, at work, in class, whatever. The most important thing is to get over your shyness and know that you can have a natural, enlightening conversation with anyone, whether or not you find them attractive.
Please please please stay away from pick up lines! However, if you want to get over your shyness, and meet some awesome girls at the same time, you might want to a dance club and start taking lessons. I know it sounds kind of cheesy, but it really does work. A lot of women appreciate a man that can dance or is at least willing to learn. You apologize. Pick up lines denigrate your own personal creativity and add you to the demograph of men who contribute toward the fact that we live in a patriarchal and rape-based culture.
The more you plan it, the more pressure you are putting on yourself. Edit: And not all pick-up lines are bad. Just make them funny, not gross. My name is. And what vibe are you giving off if you only keep asking about her?
The you-are-worth-more-than-miserable-little-me vibe.
No good. Also, there are ridiculous amounts of lame guys who do that stuff, so if you start doing the interview thing she will immediately associate you with those losers. Asking a bunch of questions is lame. And he is looking for advice, not to be called a loser, nothing wrong with asking her questions, just ask the right questions. However, nothing I say is true until you see for yourself.
Nice eyes, are they real? I tend to make no sense at all. It always works. Pickup lines are for unoriginal chumps. I impress with my observation skills, but that can also scare off women because they fear I will notice, or care, that they have flaws. I usually make them comfortable with my endless flaws. Then… I usually get bored with them and say how boring they are. Honestly I do not believe in picking up girls in bars, clubs etc.
If your goal is that, then read The Game from Neil Strauss. If you are interested in more than that, then I believe you meet the right wom e a n at other times, mostly at times when you least expect it. Then it is even more difficult to say what you would like to say because you are put in the spotlight without any preparation possibilities. BUT that is also the good thing about it, because you are, and can be, spontaneous, which is the most important thing in my opinion. When you are spontaneous, you are yourself, and that is what you need to be.
Who cares, if the girl is not interested, then why bothering and wasting your time on her hu? And try these kind Less than that chat linejust as interesting things in situations where you do not want to hit on a girl. What I mean is, start having conversations with waitresses, bartenders, caissiers etc. It will give you an advantage an some learning experience and you will see that it is easier than you think it is. Good luck! A simple greeting does the work well. As for following up, I recall the great advice I once heard of. Try to make her laugh and then have a conversation.
Dont think to much about picking her up and focus on talking with her. What do you say after the pickup line? Kristian lordcat 9 years, 9 months ago. Sort replies by: Votes Oldest Newest. Alex hollowinfinity 9 years, 9 months ago ago. Ellie 1, M tangledupinplaid21 9 years, 9 months ago ago. Manimal 2, manimal 9 years, 9 months ago ago. Gustave Molinari 0 gustave 9 years, 9 months ago ago. Megan Wilson 5 poefan 9 years, 9 months ago ago.
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BirdFlyingHigh birdflyinghigh 9 years, 9 months ago ago. Vibes do. Just ask to go out for a smoke or for some air.
Then just talk. Anonymous 2, 9 years, 4 months ago ago. Ray Butler 1, M trek79 9 years, 4 months ago ago. Filip 2, M filipek 9 years, 4 months ago ago. James 0 James-Du 1 year, 6 months ago ago. You could meet them at unexpected places…. Anonymous 0 7 years, 4 months ago ago. How do We do Philosophizing?Less than that chat linejust as interesting
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